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Animals feel fear and use it to their advantage. For instance, skunks spray when they feel threatened. Their powerful odor is actually a defense mechanism. Other animals run and hide when they sense danger. In these cases, fear saves these animals from harm. There are as many different ways to respond to fear positive and negative as there are fears themselves. Ignoring fear altogether is not a good plan. Often people deny their fears because they don't want to seem cowardly. Putting up a brave front so as to not appear "chicken" might seem like a good idea, but it is never a good plan to lie to yourself. The smart way to react to fear is to assess situations and not let emotion determine your actions.
Peer Pressure
Because his best friend is doing it. Sometimes people are caught in a tug-of-war between peer pressure and personal fears. We learn that Jess "could not hang back" when Leslie crosses. His fear of being teased or disappointing Leslie is stronger than his natural fear of the water. Jess even knows that Leslie would not make fun of him for being afraid, but he still makes himself go. Later on, we learn that it was Jess who "minded being afraid."
Fear of the UnknownPeople are often scared of the unknown situations in which they are not familiar with their surroundings. This fear may be justified, and it's a good idea to be cautious when you are on unfamiliar turf.But we need to face fear of the unknown if we ever want to accomplish new things.
Or consider the feeling of John Glenn, the first American to orbit the earth. How did he feel looking at our planet from space? Both men were probably anxious, nervous, and excited at the same time. But if they had let their fear overcome them, their great accomplishments might never have come to pass. (Or someone else might have done it instead!) When Jess finally realizes that it's okay to be afraid he takes a big step in his emotional growth. He crosses an emotional bridge. He goes from blaming himself for being afraid to learning how to deal with his fear. For Jess, overcoming fear of the unknown is a good thing. At the start of Bridge to Terabithia, Leslie is "the unknown." In stepping into Leslie's world, though, Jess comes away with a dear friend that he would have never had if he had not taken that chance.
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